Look Beyond The Sex! Advice To All The Guys (Must Read)

                

Wish all guys will look beyond the SEX thing….Cos in one way or the other, two people in a relationship in this 21st century will surely have sex if not now..then in some time to come…But if its the main priority for the guy in the relationship, then there won’t b a reason or need to date after some months of sex…Even the girl of your dreams might appear like a white elephant after some series of sex…

Remember, if u walk into Ashanti gold fields or any mining company and asked of the source of their jewels…you will be taken to a vast bushy land with rocks,trees, thorns, stones and even rubbish…But when all these things are cleared and the land is mined, the jewels are found…deep down hidden in the soil…..

Guys, i want you to see a lady as a piece of land…with all the stones,trees, rocks, bush and even rubbish on it…The mining company buys the land with all those thrash on it….Just as NO HUMAN BEING IS PERFECT….NO LAND IS ALREADY WEEDED OR CLEARED FOR USE.. the owner/Mining company will have to clear all things they consider as thrash from the land with all those excavators and heavy machines u can think of…

Sometimes, the trees on the land can be used as timber/ firewood or even processed to charcoal… Also, some of the plants on the land we consider as weeds can be used for medicinal purposes or even food for animals.. What am trying to say here is THERE ARE FAR OTHER THINGS WE GUYS OFTEN OVERLOOK IN WOMEN and rather waste time watching other physical things…

The most important which is their LEVEL OF GOD FEARING. Proverbs 31vs 30 tells us that beauty is vain but a woman that FEARS THE LORD shall be praised….

SECONDLY, their GODLY CHARACTER..A good woman is one whose attractiveness goes beyond her outward beauty. True beauty has to do with the inner qualities of a person and as they say, it goes skin-deep.Godly character traits like honesty, patience, gentleness, generosity, the loveliness of a smile and the brightness of the eyes tell of the beauty of a woman from the inside.As Galatians 5 vs 22 tells us… A good woman is the one who has learn t to grow and nurture the fruits of the Spirit listed in …

THIRDLY.., HOW WELL THEY WERE BROUGHT UP….It doesn’t necessarily have to be how rich they are but how they were trained since infancy… that will determine if they can handle your kitchen and satisfy your stomach…IMAGINE HOW ITS GONNA BE TO COME HOME ON A WEEKEND WITH VISITORS AND YOU WILL HAVE TO BUY FOOD FROM THE RESTAURANT FOR THEM COS U DON’T TRUST YOUR WIFE’S COOKING…these are just some few important things to notify in a lady before going into a relationship with her…NOT HER CURVES, LONG HAIR, GOOD DANCER (SO ASSUME WILL BE SEXY IN BED)… ETC

This is just my little advice to my fellow guys…DON’T BE FANTASIZING ON HOW ITS GONNA BE NICE TO BE BANGING HER COS U WILL SURELY BANG HER… and to the ladies…IF U WANT A GUY TO LOVE U WHOLEHEARTEDLY, LOVE HIS HEART AND NOT HIS MONEY……